Looking at the past through present lens

 I just heard a quote that said, "the past is just that... the past but we can change the story we tell ourselves about it". This quote really hit home for me because a lot of the time when I remind myself of my past, I get really sad. In doing this I forget the beautiful lessons the past has taught me which is why I end up repeating the past. I really am enjoying this blog it's one of the healthiest outlets I've had in my life. I know that I make bad choices, but I've made some good life changing ones as well. The decision I made to be friends with the people I'm friends with now was a great decision. The memories we have made together I will remember forever even if God forbid, we stop being friends. Life can be so beautiful if you let it even falling in love for the first time is beautiful. Yes, the heart break hurt like hell but why? Because of how good it felt. I don't want to give up today, now I say today because sometimes I don't value my life like I should.

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